Insecurities
For me, insecurity is a lack of confidence of oneself and also the feeling of being open to threat. Everyone might have their own insecurities towards themselves. I also have this kind of feeling towards myself too. It's normal for a human being to feel that way. But, the most important thing now is how we cope with this feeling?
For myself, I always feel that I am never good enough and not worth living in this beautiful world. I always think that I am a disappointment to everyone attached to me. I also always think that I am far uglier than all of my friends. It makes me feel so small whenever I am with my circle of friend. I am not confident about my appearance at all.
How do I cope with my insecurities? First of all, I am lucky enough to have a partner or the society nowadays most comfortably called it as 'girlfriend'. Yes, I am lucky enough to have her always by my side to give me constant reassurance and she always show me that I am worth living in this world. I owe her a lot. But all of you need to know now that we're no longer together in a relationship and decided to part away but we're still in good terms and still in contact with each other day by day. She still mean a lot to me. So there, having someone that you can trust and gives you constant reassurance really helps.
Then, I also starts finding a new interest. Nowadays I'm really into reading poems. The writings in poems really helps me in finding my self-esteem. If you want any recommendation, go and buy any book from Mustaqim Jiwa. You'll be amaze by how beautiful the usage of words that he use and by the message that he try to give. I am currently hooked with his writings. Find a new interests that will help you cope with your self confidence. No matter what it is. As long as you think that it helps, then you are really coping with your insecurities.
Okay lastly for my insecurity on my looks. There's rarely anything that I can do about it. You are born with it. You can't change anything about it. Trust me that you guys are all beautiful and handsome just the way you are now. You just gotta be grateful about it. You can add your own sparks and only some people will really see how amazing you look. As for me, I'm not really working hard about my looks but I succeeded in losing weight in which before this I am a chubby guy weighted 85kg but now I am 66kg. I start to feel that I am looking great now. For my facial feature, I am insecure about my forehead but I've figured out the best haircut for myself. Once again, I start to feel that I am looking great now. I am more confident about my looks now.
Don't think about it too much. It'll not solve anything. You should jump out of your comfort zone and start trying new things. There's a lot of things to be explore in this world. Find your new comfort zone. Don't be threaten by your own insecurities. Okay?
Thank you if you read this all 'till the end. I hope it helps. Thank you!
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